Relationships – Years.

Good afternoon…

I was able to rest for at least a couple of hours.
Double post, which is not the regular basis but I wish to make it up to you 
In case there is a time I leave the blog less active.

Today is an important day…
For us, me and (I also believe) you.

It has been two years since our first kiss, since we started dating
I remember it as it was yesterday.
That beautiful place with the perfect company.

It has been two years, with times of joy, hurt, laughter and much love.
Two years of many to come, if your heart desires the same as me.
Two years loving and living with and for someone else
Wanting nothing else that his happiness.

POV : 
I was and am not the kind of person
to wish anything else different than a love for life.
Short term relationships are not meant for me.
I wished someone for life, to hold closely, look after and love much.
And also to feel the same back, for me.

At that time, I was not expecting to meet you.
We began as friends. I was not looking for love.
Time passed and we were trusting more and more in eachother.
Going out for a walk or coffee, laughting much, speaking a lot on the phone
(We could speak for hours about random things , everything and nothing
And even talk about serious subjects)

I fell in love with that handsome young man.
He loved me back, but I was scared if he didn’t love me back…
We had already a solid friendship and I didn’t want to lose it,
In case he didn’t felt the same.

One day, the 29th, we asked eachother, something like this on msn :
« Do you like LIKE someone? »
(I hesitated but said) « Yes… »

Then I said « You. »
I logged off but left other of my accounts open.
Then he told me that he had something to tell me.
That he loved me back.

I was really shy at the time but I felt the happiest and luckiest person in the World!
I still do, after all these days, months and years shared.
I do not know what will the future bring for us.
Only GOD know and time will tell.

I shall be waiting and want you to know that you made me… 
A better person than I used to be
A stronger human being, for always believing in me
A beautiful man who saw me and loved me for being just…ME.

Hopefully I can bring and give you as much or more 
Than you gave to me.
WordsKeeper, this is for you.
Thank you… I love you  !

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Single’s and Valentine’s Day

Good Morning , dearest.

I know I wrote this post a bit early…

14th of February is a special day, isn’t it?

You can choose do go out with your soulmate
OR if you do not have your better half, make it your “Single Day”
A day specially dedicated to you !

In this day you can… 

– “Pamper” yourself by going out to have lunch or dinner somewhere new ;

– Change your looks by painting your nails or toe nails, doing a face or hair mask
Or if you are a boy/ man you can play bowling/sports or go out with friends.

– Start reading or finish reading that book on the shelf.

– Save a little time during your day to have a hot water bubble bath .

– See or rent that movie you have been waiting to watch for ages !
(You can watch alone, with your family or with friends)
Or just watch a movie or serie on TV and get some pop-corns.

– Light up some candles, incense sticks or melt some solid essence…

– Invite other single (or not) friends over to play board games.
For example : Scrabble , Pictionary , Monopoly, Risk, Cluedo,
OR other games (online or not) such as Halo or sports.
Or play a “Question and Answer” game such as
“Who wants to be a Millionaire”,

You can play plenty of online games here.

– Go to a gym, practice or try an activity that you may like.

– Go to a museum (at certain days it can be free or cheaper) or to a Zoo.

– You can also try and to the nearest amusement/theme parks around .

– You or your better half can prepare breakfast 
Or choose to prepare chocolate and fruit or cheese fondue after lunch ;
NOTE – I shall post links to those games in case I find them.

Reminder : You do not need a special someone in every phase of your life and existence.
Sometimes, all we need is to raise our self esteem and love for ourselves.

Wishing a great Valentine’s Day (or Single’s Day) to everyone,
And to my own. 🙂

God bless you ALL !


 

Inspiring Songs XII

One more inspiring song created in 1998 by Midge Ure called Breathe.

The Lyrics:

(Breathe)

With every waking breath I breathe

I see what life has dealt to me

With every sadness I deny

I feel a chance inside me die

Give me a taste of something new

To touch to hold to pull me through

Send me a guiding light that shines

Across this darkened life of mine

Breathe some soul in me

Breathe your gift of love to me

Breathe life to lay ‘fore me

Breathe to make me breathe

For every man who built a home

A paper promise for his own

He fights against an open flow

Of lies and failures, we all know

To those who have and who have not

How can you live with what you’ve got?

Give me a touch of something sure

I could be happy evermore

Breathe some soul in me

Breathe your gift of love to me

Breathe life to lay ‘fore me

To see to make me breathe

Breathe your honesty

Breathe your innocence to me

Breathe your word and set me free

Breathe to make me breathe

This life prepares the strangest things

The dreams we dream of what life brings

The highest highs can turn around

To sow love¹s seeds on stony ground

Breathe

Breathe

Breathe some soul in me

Breathe your gift of love to me

Breathe life to lay ‘fore me

To see to make me breathe

Breathe your honesty

Breathe your innocence to me

Breathe your word and set me free

Breathe to make me breathe

I hope everyone likes it! Both the music and lyrics belong to Midge Ure

About

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For professional help.
I’m just a person who likes to help,
Listen and to give some advices.

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Random Facts About WordsKeeper

1. I am a male. Not too young, not too old and I’m Portuguese.

2. All my life I had problems with being fat and with my father. Most of my life I’ve been fighting depression too

3. I do believe in God. I believe there is a God and that all religions of the World believe in the same God, altough they call it different names. Altough I believe in God, I do not like the religion and all the problems it makes, like for example, the wars and conflicts between religions, the richness that is given to popes and priests when God talks to us on how riches are not that important.

“What we are is God’s gift to us. What we become is our gift to God.” ~ Eleanor Powell

4. I hate politics! I recognize they may be important in a country, but at the moment I am just sad on how the politics class just wants money, money, money instead of helping the countries they are from.

“Political language… is designed to make lies sound truthful and murder respectable, and to give an appearance of solidity to pure wind” ~ George Orwell

5. I hate lies. Long story, you can understand better this point in my other post called Father

“The naked truth is always better than the best dressed lie” – Ann Landers

6. Probably my past changed this, but I do judge more people for what they are inside than what they look like outside. For the good, and for the bad. If someone is really beautifull, but has bad principles, why would I like to talk and be friend with that person? That’s just my opinion

“Beauty is not in the face; beauty is a light in the heart” ~ Kahlil Gibran

7. I love Japanese and Chinese Food 😀

8. I do believe in Souls. I just can’t believe we are here for just one life. We have so much to learn! I believe that when we die, our soul will come back to Earth in another body, not remembering the past life of course.

9. I believe in True Love. Actually that is the only Love I believe that is not between people of same blood. I do not believe that one night cases can be called Love, nor summer loves and such. If we truely love someone, it’s a relationship that will continue for long time.

“True love is eternal, infinite, and always like itself. It is equal and pure, without violent demonstrations; it is seen with white hairs and is always young in the heart.” ~Honore de Balzac

10. I hate public speaking 😛 I start shaking and eventually start making errors and be even more nervous lol

Here they are. 10 looong random facts about me ^^
If you wish to discuss them with me or with Life you can leave us a comment here or just send us an e-mail 🙂

Father…

When a father turns into just another friend…

I recognize… it must not be easy to be a father. No baby is born with a manual telling their parents how to be a father and mother but if we think about it there are lots of people that turn into good parents.

Let’s face it…you weren’t a good father.

You never cared to respect your kids when they were young, you would often tell us to stop playing with cars and such to come to the living room where you were watching tv and be quiet, and if we did some noise we would have to go to bed.

Your love demonstration would be sitting quietly in your lap while you watched tv or played tetris. You always tried to make us show some love when You wanted and never when we wanted. The silence was terrible, specially to my brother, since he wasn’t the quiet type like me.

I don’t remember you playing with us on the floor or helping in school or such. I was told you did that when I was very young. I don’t remember it.

You never taught me how life was, all the common things a father should teach his son. You never taught me how to shave, never taught me about girls, about the changes in my body, about relationships. I had to find a father in my mother and family.

You did teach me some thigs… specially what not to do when I am a father. For that I thank you.

You were not a great husband too, you hurt my mother, you cheated on her and almost made a slave of her (she had to do everything for you while you were sitting and playing). For that I thank you too because now I know what not to do when I grow up.

I tried, I really tried to forget all you did, all the lies and all the indifference to our problems. That was hurting me, because I didn’t want to hurt you. Sorry, I had to have that talk with you. Now I said it all, but we are going apart.

I am truly sorry that this happened but I couldn’t be constantly hurted by this.

You are slowly, turning in some kind of friend. I still love you as a father…but do not see you as a father. You changed a lot in this last 10 years… You did… but not with us and not for us.

I do want you to know that, even after all this, you can always count on me.

Let’s end this with a song about a father and son, called “Father and Son” by Cat Stevens

Inspiring Songs XI

One more inspiring song for all of you 🙂
Lyrics are included on the video and this song is called “Life” and belongs to “Our Lady Peace”

“Oh, Life is waiting for you
So messed up, but we’re alive
Oh, Life is waiting for you
So messed up, but we’ll survive
All messed up, but we’ll survive “